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writes:Ok this sounds really strange i no. about a month ago i got this random txt from this guy, we meet on a nite out im may and swapped numbers then out of know where he txt me again,we meet up 2 weeks ago 2day for a drink and from then carried on texting,Halloween we meet again and i went bk to his house, and of course had sex, then hadnt seen each other for a week but still texted eachother every day Anyway on monday we slept together again, and he was saying things like i lv f***ing you, and when i left he said txt 2moro as in tuesday, But yesterday(weds) i hadnt heard anything from him, so i texted him saying i understand and that thanks for the other nite, anyway had no reply so i texted asking what was wrong and he replyed that im playign games texting from another number pretending 2 be someone called marc and that i need helpTruth is i hadnt done anything like this and i didnt no a marc, so then i though that would b the sort of thing my ex would do, even tho he has a gf and a baby on the way he got hold of my phone and got the number of this guy, Anyway ive explaned that i didnt no a marc but my ex was behind it all, ive tryed texting and ringing this guy but he hasnt texted me bk or answered my phone calls, i think he still thinks its me even tho my ex has texted him explaining why he had been doing this,tonight i drove past this guys house and was going to knock on the door but thought he may close the door on my face so didnt in the end,I texted him to tell my 2 tell me 2 f*** off but he didnt even reply to that just so i got an idea that he hates me nowPlease can i have any advice on how 2 get this guy back on my side i do like him a lot, but with him not replying 2 my txts or answering my calls, even form my mums num not picking up i want 2 go round his house 2 get him 2 listen but dont really want 2 do this Please plese help me Any advice is needed i like him alot i even said in a txt 2 him last nite that i kinda liked him
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): if he wanted to have a relationship with you he would contact you to talk about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): Poor girl, I feel bad to hear that you are wasting your valuable time for a guy who doesnt care you that much, so why should you care about him? Why should you have to tell him that you like him very much? Yes, he is great, but he doesnt think you the same way. So, why dont you leave him alone, and let him to wonder why you stoped. The more texts you sent the less he felt interested. So stop calling and texing, save your time for some other guy who is waiting for your calls all the time. I will never like a person who doesnt like me that much. Its a rule. Bty, I dont think that he used you for sex, you enjoyed in it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): This guy is a jerk. He isn't treating you with respect, he's being immature and you deserve someone who would at least tell you what's up. Give yourself a couple weeks to get him out of your system so you can be ready to meet someone who isn't a waste of time. I know it hurts. Some guys can turn into trash as soon as sex is involved. They can't handle it. Keep an eye out for someone mature who can.
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reader, Doug102690  +, writes (13 November 2009):
With that logic, soon567, you can claim anything as true. Until there's even a hint of "a death in the family or an ex girlfriend," it's safe and logical to assume that the guy is a jerk who will not change any time soon. He's immature.Some high schoolers never grow up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): Its not about the sex, it about ignoring someone, not bothering to even reply (it takes less than i min) lack of empathy and respect for others! So, yes, i think he's trash. He can change someday, but for now i think he is an a**h***!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): you can do better... he's a wasteand please take this advice, dont ever thank any guy, for the "other night" unless he spent the night listening to your problems, payed for dinner in a fancy restaurant, or gave you jewelry.I know you are mad, but stop calling him...You will meet other guys that are going to treat much better and you'll see what a waste of time you even cared about this looser!
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reader, Doug102690 +, writes (12 November 2009):
It sounds to me that this guy doesn't care about you as a person and basically just wanted you as a play thing. "I love f***ing you?" He's not worth your time or energy. Besides, if he ignores your texts explaining what your jerk of an ex did, what would keep him from ignoring you other ways? He doesn't care about you and he, just as the title says, used you for sex. He's immature and selfish. Stay away from that type.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 November 2009):
I'm really sorry you were treated this way. I knw you fancy him, but you're clinging onto someone who isn't worth another moment of your time. There are plenty of better guys out there who won't use you and treat you this way, so please find one of them instead.
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