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writes:I met this guy through a friend. We went out three times, on the third date we went out dancing and had sex. The following day he didn't call. I asked him if I had done something wrong? he said that it wasn't me, that it was him and that he needed more time. I didn't bother to ask him anything. Should I ask him or just forget him and move on? I really liked him.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (12 November 2009):
 more time for what i may ask? honey i think you should just get on with your life and forget about that loser. Maybe he was just after sex i dont know but now that he has got it he comes up with that lame excuse. You are worth more than that, just forget about him delete his number and get yourself back out there.
There could be an underlying excuse you never know, maybe he is not over his ex and for him tohave sex with another person has brought all the feelings back? nobody will know only him, he will call after a while but when he does just say no sorry ive met someone else and he'll realise that he done a wrong thing
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 November 2009):
Forget about him. I think he's proved himself unworthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): No, just stop all contact and save yourself further pain. Sorry to say this, but this guy sounds like he is 'just not that into you", hun. When two people connect, they will do anything to be together and they communicate, they work hard at establishing a solid relationship. He's not doing this, is he. It sounds like you are immobilized in a very self-defeating situation, here. You need to be strong and start doing everything you can to move forward and forget about him.. Right now, you could be stopping yourself from accepting the reality of this situation. Leave him alone and learn from this life experience. And next time , please hold out on the sex thing until, you are certain, the guy is the one for you. Good luck and take care.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (12 November 2009):
yes sorry u shud forget about him. he got wut he wanted and now he needs time? what a moron. if u ignore him he will start calling supposedly want to patch things up. when he does tell him never to call u again and hang up
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (12 November 2009):
yes sorry u shud forget about him. he got wut he wanted and now he needs time? what a moron. if u ignore him he will start calling supposedly want to patch things up. when he does tell him never to call u again and hang up
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