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writes:i've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now and i genuinly trust him and enjoy our sex life however i don't think ive ever come. i can feel the build up during sex and really enjoy it but then suddenly it just seems to stop or i feel a release but dont actually come
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to you both thats been really useful because i now think that i have actually come coz i had that feeling but when i asked my boyfriend if thats what it was he said probably not, i thought that i would ejaculate some kind of liquid or something like it does with men
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (12 November 2009):
 Hmmm, that's no fun then. Without getting too explicit, I know that my ex liked it the best when I used both oral and manual on her at the same time to satisfy her both inside and outside all at once.
But I have to ask: Have you been able to climax with any other men besides this one boyfriend? And have you been successful at masturbating on your own?
Because if it's just this guy, I just suggest experimenting with things he can do, or ways he can do it, and suggest you guide him to touch you just right. If he's not alone in this, you need to spend some quality time alone trying to get it right yourself before you can help him do it for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): You won't physically ejaculate any cum. The porn sites with women who supposedly ejaculate is a bunch of crap. You will feel a series of fluctuating tingles and flushes that usually start out mild and build to a crescendo (to borrow a term from music, i.e. a climax). After that it will diminish until you can no longer orgasm. You'll need some down time without vaginal stimulation for a while and then you can start up again.I usually get my girlfriend to orgasm orally, then I slip it in and go to town. That puts her over the top, because once she starts orgasming orally, the intercourse makes her go nuts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe exact same thing happens with oral, its really frustrating!!! :(
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reader, Illithid +, writes (12 November 2009):
Foreplay. Seriously. Whether you've climaxed with other men before him and just can't with this guy, or whether you have never came from vaginal sex, it's all about the oral. Ask him to try giving you oral sex and see if that works better. The tongue is MUCH better at pleasing a woman than a penis is.
Something like 75% of women CANNOT climax from vaginal penetration, so that's actually normal. But if he does love you back, ask him to try some other things.
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