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writes:Hey everyone I'm 18 years old and am in my final year at school. My problem is that I have feelings for one of my teachers who is 28. He has been teaching me since I was 16 and I have always liked him but I knew I only had a crush on him so I figured I would get over him soon enough.Now though, my feelings towards him are way more intense. I have NEVER felt like this around another guy before and I don't believe that I still just have a crush on him. It gets pretty embarassing though because I have these really vivid dreams about him and then I have to face him the next day at school! I kept telling myself that he probably had a relationship with kids and that was the only thing that was keeping me from falling completely head over heels for him, I would never want to break up a family. The other day though we were talking and he mentioned that he wasn't in a relationship and had no children, so now what do I do to stop myself from thinking of him?!Anyway I just wanted to know if anyone else experienced anything like this and if so how did you manage to ge over him or her? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey ma-an-na thanks for your reply! Its really a relief to not have someone screaming at me about impropriety and its really encouraging to hear about success stories.
Thanks for your advice, thats what I'm doing now, getting to know him better. I'm sure that he must have some habit that will turn me off him, but if we do continue to hit it off then who knows? Thanks again!
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reader, ma-an-na  +, writes (13 November 2009):
hey you!
I went through that, and came back alive. Only i chose NOT to get over it and go for it. And what i found there was beyond my wildest dreams.
However, if you wanna get over him, the best thing to do is to get to know him better. There is a thing about teachers that tend to kick us off course. Maybe its that natural power they posses over us when teaching, or maybe its their personality mixed with knowledge, but hey! they're only human and there's bound to be something that will put you off when you find out what it is.
That way, you will have given yourself a chance. Don't let go of something as precious as an emotion that fast.
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