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writes:Met a great guy in the summer but as time went by - it was obvious that he just wanted a no strings attached relationship. The sex was amazing but I knocked it on the head and said no - I wanted and deserved more....Well he recently has been writing to me saying he misses the sex with me as it was so incredible and really does want to try and see if the relashionship can move forward. Being with me had made him happy and he is prepared to talk to see if he can move it forward. I am guessing that he has been through a few more experiences and maybe realised that I may just be a great gal to be with!!!!I am meeting him for lunch on sat - I have made it clear that I will not be his f**k buddy and want more in my life.Anyway - any thoughts on this - what should I be saying to show him I am serious. And how do I know if he is serious in moving things forward???? What should I be looking out for???Many thanks for your time and words. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmmmmmmmm - Anonymous - thats an interesting twist on things - hmmmmmm will think about that one. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): this is just another option, which i wouldnt go for, cause it needs some kind of cold blood to do and some manipulation, ands its risky, but might work. Just act like hes your sex toy, i dont mean by being rough, make love like you are completely in love with him, but after that, put on your clothes and go. Seem a really busy woman, with a lot going on in your life, get phone calls when with him, but when talking to him, make him feel special..... most man are gonna think what is wrong with you not be falling for him, then is going to try to get you..... i told its manipulative, but i see it working for a lot of women
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you manaja - that is one thing I am very wary off - getting back to square one...Something that I really don't want.
Thank you so much quiet-echo - some really great advice. I am very wary of falling into old habis that didn't get me anywhere so yes, I do have to make it clear where he stands with me.
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reader, manaja +, writes (12 November 2009):
I think I would take things very slow with him, dont give him sex as often as you did, let him wait a bit, chase you...otherwise you'l be back to square one and when he's done with you , he'l just get somebody else. Let him do some chasing.
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