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writes:My sister is 23 and has been dating a guy for over 7 years. A month ago he told her he was bi and had been cheating on her with a guy. She broke up with him but has since taken him back. They now have an open relationship where he can go and be gay then come home to her. I cant stand to even look at this guy now. I know that this was her first love but how can I show her she deserves better than some guy who wants to screw other men?
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reader, MISSYT  +, writes (12 November 2009):
I feel for you. I have a younger sister and all i want to do is protect her so i know how you feel. I know you feel that you need to get her away from this guy but maybe you just need to be there for her. People have to learn from their mistakes and this is her mistake to make. She obvious loves the guy. So i say to you don't be going around thinking of ways you can disrupt their relationship. Just be there for your sister so that she knows you are there for her in the times she needs you. Believe me she will thank you for it.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 November 2009):
Hmm that's quite a predicament. Well you can't show her she deserves better, she can only see that for herself once she opens her eyes. Unfortunately, the more you tell her she can do better and try to convince her that she shouldn't be in a relationship like this, the more she won't want to hear anything from you. So if you've already given her your input then that's all you can really do for now. Just be there for her if and when she needs you. I just hope that even though he's her boyfriend they use protection because as long as she's going to be sharing him, he's also going to be sharing diseases with her.
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