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writes:my friend slept with a guy, and then a few months later she slept with his brother.of course, neither brother knows that she slept with the other one.neither of them were her boyfriends (the recent brother she slept with is crushing on her bad though - she's not interested in a relationship with him), but isn't it pretty low to do that?i mean, on the one hand i'm thinking she should live her life and do whatever she feels like, but on the other hand i can't help but feel disappointed that MY friend would do something like that.do you guys think it's ok or not to do what she did?
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reader, goodcharlotte4life  +, writes (23 November 2009):
 wow,
suprisingly i have did the same thing except both brothers found out about it. the older one did not care and the younger one eventually got over it and we are all still friends. But everyone is different so i dont know what may happen if the brothers find out about them sleeping with the same girl.
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reader, Full moon temptress1 +, writes (13 November 2009):
i think your friend is more concerned about how these men see her.I feel she probally regreted her actions,in the hope nobody finds out whats done is done,she can't change that.In probabilty they will find out about each other.Tell YOUR friend this is a lesson learnt.Hope the fall out isn't to bad for her.Just take it on the chin and learn from her mistakes.Sorry this may sound harsh.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (13 November 2009):
 I do not agree with what your friend did,
However you need to remember all the people involved were consenting adults.
The two brothers chose to have sex knowing the same girl and they now have to deal with the consequences of their actions.
There is nothing you could have done to prevent this.
Be there for your friend and advise her this was not a good idea to sleep with two brothers however I doubt she would have listened even if you warned her.
Your friend and the two brothers in question would have done this regardless of whatever you had said.
This is ultimately their problem and not yours so dont worry too much.
Goodluck!
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