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writes:well i began last year in a very very repuated college but was doin a course which i dint like at all i hated it but the college and my friends were very goodafter completing that year i moved to another college which is not that reputed and took a course of my choicedo u think i did the right thing?thousands of people struggle to get into the college i left and i had it and threw it away but i seriosly dint like what i was studyingam i right? Reply to this Question
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reader, BeachBum  +, writes (9 June 2009):
I'm sorry to hear that. Do you still stay in touch with your friends there? email, call, etc.? And can you go visit them and vice-versa? I think the best thing for you to do since you can't go back is to take the best of both worlds. Enjoy what you're doing academically at your new school and keep your friends and keep in contact with your friends at your old school. But having said that and rereading what else you've posted, it sounds to me that part of you problem is that you aren't making as many friends or as good of quality friends at your new school? If that's the case, I know it's really hard and you must feel lonely. If that's the case, what are some things that go around at your school that you would enjoy? Where are places you would like to go to? Start making plans and inviting people to come along. Hopefully, through that you're start making friends that share the same interests with you. They're won't replace your friends and you'll still miss them, but being alone or sad, is not the way to go either. I wish I could help more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i cant go back to the old college its too late
i like the course i am doing in my new school but i miss my friends :(
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reader, BeachBum +, writes (3 June 2009):
I know how you feel, but I made the opposite choice. I came to a school where I liked most of the teachers and some of the classes, but didn't really like the people. I couldn't change schools because none of my classes would transfer so I stayed there miserable for three years. While I started to like the people more, I still didn't have many friends and I wasn't happy with my studies. I think you need to ask yourself if you're happy at your new school and like the people and classes. And what about your previous school you didn't like. If it was just what you were studying, could you go back to that school and study something else and be happier. Could you go back if you wanted? In the end, you need to think about where you'll be happier at and where you will get the best education. Hope I was helpful.
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