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Guys -- how long do you usually last during a bj?

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Question - (3 June 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is for the guys out there. When getting a blow job about how long does is take for you to ejaculate. I give my boyfriend head but there's no way I'm letting him cum in my mouth so I only do it for a while then carry on with a hand job just in case he does and doesn't say anything. I know everyone differs but i was just wondering on average really.

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A male reader, caterpillarchapstick United States +, writes (3 February 2010):

i make my gf do it till her mouth hurts which ends up being only five minutes or so, then we finish with something else. my ex was really good at it so with her i wouldn't even last five minutes. what i always say to girls is don't be a baby about getting cum in your mouth. its not so bad really.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

He'll know when its coming. He can warn you in time, if he chooses not to be a dick!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

Only you and him can work that out through finding out. For me it is 30 minutes. If you tell him you don't want him to cum in your mouth maybe you can keep going until he is going to and he can pull out when the time comes, as long as you're okay with the mess that could create!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

it depends how good your doing it and varies from man to man, I'd last a good 20 minutes

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A male reader, tuffers United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2009):

If a man is conscious that his partner is worried about a little semen in her mouth then it can last forever because the negative vibes are being felt by the man.He will naturally hold back. To enjoy oral sex, both partners need to be relaxed and accept that to fulfill each others desires, some semen will and must flow. If you are that worried ask him to wear a condom.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

It really varies. Sometimes it's just not doing it for you, and you can't cum that way no matter how long it goes on. Other times it's almost instantaneous. They only way for you to be sure you don't get a mouthful is through communication. You make it clear to him that if doesn't warn you, he's had his last bj from you.

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A male reader, mytwocents United States +, writes (3 June 2009):

mytwocents agony auntThat depends on so many factors that it’s impossible to gauge. I’ve lasted as few as three minutes and as long as 25 (which is about when a girl decides to move on to something else). It depends on how long it’s been since my last time; how much I want it; how good she is at it; how much hand she’s using; how fast she’s going; how much I can touch and see her while she’s doing it; how rested or tired I am. The list goes on and on.

If your concern is him cumming in your mouth without saying anything, there are certainly other, more accurate things you can do than trying to guess how long he’s going to last.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

I'm pretty sure it depends on how fast you're moving, how consistent you are, how long it's been since he last ejaculated, how turned on he is, and how good it feels.

If he masturbated quite recently, i would expect it to take longer. if he was way more turned on then usual, i would expect it take less time, etc.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (3 June 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntMy fella takes about 10 minutes. Sometimes as long as 15-20, but on average, I'd say 10 minutes and he's gone!!

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