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writes:I am friends with a married man and he has just come back from an overseas work trip,but while he was there we kept in touch thru email - just very basic stuff like saying how much fun he was having, where he was going etc. Just a few sentences each week and some photos. Not much at all. Do you think he feels anything more than friendship for me, or am i just imagining it. I do tend to feel "something" between us, but we have never said anything about an attraction to each other as we are both married. Just a bit concerned.. would like your opinions. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): i think you realise you two have been getting too "close" and crossing this friendship blurred line. there isn't anything to pinpoint but there is a little something......if it is then whoa, you have problems. both are married and 2 marriages WILL BE RUINED. it just starts off as friendship, harmless, little texts/emails/ now photos then slowly it creeps up. this is the time to get a reality wake up - snapout of it. don't go there, already a slow emotional attachment ids forming. if you continue you are playing with fire, and as always the potential to burn i so great. why not concentrate in fixing your marriage and trying to add some extra spark into it. maybe you are getting bored and looking for a way out. this way out is really no way out. too much to lose and yes your heart will get broken. if you identify that something is developing, then pull back, stop the continuous communication.Or are you too deep already and don't want to and just want to risk it?? your choice but remember your choice will have consequences so plse choose wisely.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Well at least you recognize the feeling. Now recognize the feeling you are gonna have if you let your thoughts get the best of you......Not good feelings huh? A crystal ball that looks into the future and sees you getting surprised by Joey Greco and his TV crew as you are getting wined and dined at Taco Bell.
Best to let this sleeping dog lie, and concentrate on your own marriage.
You cant find love inside your marriage if you are looking outside of it, and thats exactly what you are beginning top do.
get a grip, and get involved in your marriage.
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