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*at_Spork
writes:I've just got this little problem, and I don't know why I'm even seeing it as a problem.I'm 18 years old (nearly 19), and I'm still a virgin. I've never done anything sexually active with a boy, but I have done some (no polite way to put this) orally pleasurable things with them. I'm a Christian, and I don't plan of having sex until I'm married.But, my question is, I get these urges of some sorts, where I start to need to masturbate or something to that nature. I just recently bought a vibrator and I feel a little guilty about it.Is it wrong for me to pleasure myself when I feel the need to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): It is healthy to masterbate...But baby girl you are not all that a virgin really. You might be a virgin to vaginal sex (whatever you want to call) but you have had sexual experiences. Oral Sex is sex sweetheart! Anything that involves another partner to cum is sex.
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reader, Bat_Spork +, writes (5 June 2009):
Bat_Spork is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys for giving me some advice. I feel a little better about all of this after reading some of your responses.
And thank you anonymous writer who seems to be in the same situation. I feel a little better about it, reading about someone who seems to be going through some of the same feelings as I am. I just feel guilty about doing these sorts of things and feelings, when I probably shouldn't.
Thank y'all for helping me realize that it's not that bad, and I shouldn't feel guilty for just getting rid of some of those hormones that are dying to come out. :P
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 I am with Satin all the way.
It helps all round when a woman can have great orgasms through masturbation.
She knows EXACTLY what floats her boat.
And a woman who knows how to get what she wants is a great help to us fumbling guys.
I only wish more women were comfortable with their bodies, and about masturbating in front of us.
I am lucky to have such a partner, but women need to know how damn horny they look when they're at it.
Masturbation is never a problem. Get the vibe switched on and have a great time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Its funny, but to me the main reason why its a good thing to wait with sex until marriage is to not risk getting pregnant and not get any STD's. Pleasuring yourself wont make you risk either, so in my logic: go for it!
The other answers are great too, there's no reason why not to please yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): To be honest I am in the same position kinda. My boyfriend and i fool around but i'm waiting. I'm eighteen too. Before him i did the same thing though. Sometimes I still feel guilty but I don't think it is wrong. just natural and if ur raised like that and like being christian ur gonna feel guilty.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (3 June 2009):
 nope, your perfectly fine, your just making yourself happt and that you feel a lot more relaxed. your pefectly fine.
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