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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now, we met in a very special way and we're honestly so in love, everything is perfect between us, he always tells me how in love with me he is and how i'm the best thing that's ever happened to him, we've never gotten into a fight, we're always just really happy with eachother..but then one day he just said that he was thinking about things and that he wants some time to himself, with school and some family situations..he said it could be a couple days or maybe a week, but not too long, and he said he for sure wont break up with me because he loves me and cant see himself without me..he said i could call him and i did but now he says im calling too much..im so confused and i dont know what to do because i want to give him his space and time, but im scared that if i stop calling/texting that he'll like that time away from me and just forget about being me..even tho i know he says he wont, i still have that fear Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): ***This is the person that asked the question..
and everything is fine now. :) he was just having a lot of trouble at home and needed time to himself..and no he didnt say i called too much, but anyway thanks everybody.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): ***This is the person that asked the question..
and everything is fine now. :) he was just having a lot of trouble at home and needed time to himself..and no he didnt say i called too much, but anyway thanks everybody.
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reader, local_celeb2011  +, writes (4 June 2009):
If he loves you like he says he does then you have nothing to worry about. He really may just be having some problems and be stressed out. I would just not call him or talk to him and if he really does love you then he will come around. I know it is easier said than done but just totally leave him alone for a few days and his true colors should come through. Hope it works out for the best! :)
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reader, kittykhaos  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 when you love someone you dont forget them over night. Love doesn't fade in space or time there has to be a real valid reason and a week long break wont cost you your relationship if he loves you. Im in love with someone we fell out 2 months ago and haven't spoken at all since but i still love him. I think you just need to back off and give this guy space you sounds like a pretty intense person. im sure its fine.
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reader, love-struckxo +, writes (3 June 2009):
 If you guys love eachother like you say you do, then don't worry.
Give him the space he needs, and accept it. If you bother him too much, then he wont have time to think about things, and you will just end up pushing him farther away.
Give him at least a couple days to work things out in his head, and then give him a call or a text..
If you don't want to just END things completely while your on this break, send him a text messaging say,
(ie. I am going to give you the space you want, but I want you to know that I really do love you, and if you want to call me or text me, that I am here"
Short - and sweet. Gives him the reminder that you still love him, and are there for him whenever he needs you. I know it's hard, but you HAVE to do it. Keep your mind on other things for a while.
Good luck
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