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anonymous
writes:Hi i'm 18 years old and i'd really like to buy a sex toy like a dildo type thing but i'm too scared of how it'll arrive.i've been told like it just comes in a box but i really am too scared to do that and too shy to just go into a shop and ask for one.i know people say it's normal for girls to masterbate but at times i feel silly and i don't feel normal about it.also after i do masterbate i feel really disgusted with myself by what i've done... is this normal?should i feel like this?i know it seems to be alot of questions in one.sorry.i'm just really curious about this.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): A friend of mine works in a sex shop and I can guarantee they've seen it all. Your request isn't kinky in the least and would actually be pretty vanilla to anyone working behind the counter at a place that sells adult toys. Basically I don't think you have anything to be shy about...remember, they don't know who you are and also they do this for a living, so they're totally professional about it. If you have any questions about what kind is best for you, I recommend buying one in person, because you can ask the salesperson about that sort of thing and they have a TON of advice. Good luck!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): I can understand about feeling guilty, I used to at first! But remember that most people masturbate (I won't say everyone), so you are not alone in what you are doing. It is perfectly normal.
There are catalogues where you can order things like dildos, vibrators, etc, and they will come in plain packaging, with no indication of who sent them. I have to admit though that I have actually experienced problems with this in the past. Not by the people who sent the items, but because by the time it had made it's way through the postal system, the box would be all mangled and half opened. I'm not trying to put you off though, that could have just been my unfortunate experience!
I can understand you feeling too nervous to go into a shop to buy things like this. But remember, the people in these shops see it everyday. To them, they will see you as just another customer, and they will probably see selling sex toys in the same way as someone in Asda will see selling a loaf of bread: as no big deal.
You wouldn't have to talk to the people in the shop, unless you wanted to ask for help. And even then, you could just say that you are trying to get something for a friend. But like I said before, it might feel weird and uncomfortable for you, but it will be perfectly normal for them.
Or wear a disguise! x
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