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writes: I'm just really confused right now...I just turned 18 and me and my bf broke up after a year. I just feel so dumb for giving him my virginity, i thought we were gonna get married so it didnt matter anyway. Now hes just being so mean to me. and i dont know what to do now that im 18? i dont want to go to school, i'm just so confused and desprsesed. idk what to do.....i feel sad alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice i REALLY appreciate it :)
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reader, starfairy +, writes (3 June 2009):
Heartbreak is seriously tough...But you gotta suck it up, go to school, show him life goes on without him! Things will be really crappy for a while, but you have to keep busy. Going out is the last thing you want to do, but the more time you spend with friends/family, the more time passes until you feel better xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): The guy you were with is a loser hun. I wouldnt worry about. Move on with your life thats all you need to worry about. Your so young and you can still make things happen for you. Just stay strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Dont take anti depressents they only make you worse! You need to talk to someone who can help, be it a friend, relative or someone completely out of the picture like a counciller. Spend time doing the things you love as well, your hobbies. Dont waste time moping around, your young and your free you need to live your life as best as you can.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (3 June 2009):
Well its only you who can decide what to do with your life. For the minute focus on your wellbeing, if you feel depressed then see a doctor and they can help you and prescribe you anti depressants! You're only young so you have plenty of time to decide what's the best route for you. Sorry to hear about your break up but there is always a brightside, someone better will come along when you least expect it! Consider losing your virginity and having sex with your ex as just practise for when you have a new partner, you won't be as nervous! X
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