Want to talk to him, but so scared, don't know what to say, please help?

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Question - (3 June 2009)

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A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really really like this guy who is in the year above me at my school

I'm in secondary school, but never had a boyfriend so i don't have alot of experience

But I haven't talked to this guy for ages (Since October last year) (this is just because we haven't really seen each other and I am too scared- not because of a fall out or anything)

Now I really want to talk to him, because I know that we'll never be together if I don't even talk to him

But I am soooo scared

I don't know whether to go up to him when he's with all his mates, or get him alone

I don't know what to say so it doesn't seem weird that I haven't talked to him for ages and suddenly I am talking to him

I really want to try and make him like me, but I only have about 5 weeks before the summer hols, when we won't see each other for ages (by then if i haven't talked to him I think it will be too late)

I soo want to talk to him, but don't want to make it sound weird or uncomfortable

What shall I say and when??

Please help me!

thank you xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

thank you everyone

your posts were really helpful

i'm just gonna have to pluck up the courage and talk to him :)

wish me luck!

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A female reader, BethBabes +, writes (3 June 2009):

have you got his msn or facebook or anything? if so then just start a convo with him or something, just casual conversation with him. if not then just whenever you see him just say hello and build it up from there. just go for it girl :) x

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A female reader, X-Chlo-X +, writes (3 June 2009):

Do what you feel is comfortable if you are confident enough to go up to him when hes with his mates , go then or if not catch him by himself , but if yo like him so much you would do anything, so drop in a few hints you like him and just talk to him enough until your close enough to ask him out x hope it helped

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