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Messing eachother about forever - should I tell him I want to be an "us"?

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Question - (3 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *olim_te_tida writes:

Its been hard for me the past 3 months. i met this guy not too long ago, but we've been chillin every day and every hour of the day. hes soo confusing like, when its us 2 or other people we chill too, hes the nicest person i can think of for that moment. but when theres time when theres other people, he got his muggin face on and doesnt give me the same affection like he use to.

later on, we start to drift away, but off n on we like to see each other. i got my phone cut of but he still calls the people who i hangout the most, lookin for me. but when we're together alone.. its awkard.. i have that feeling he likes me but dont know foreal. honestly i really what to tell him i love him.. all the trouble we went through.. from the time he got arrest in my car to the time when he laid right next to me without us lookin into each other's eye.. of course there wasn't any sexual stiff going on. haha ive never hugged the boy nor kiss him. well i did hugged him once thats only because i was drunk and he helped me. So please help me.. what should i do to make me and him be an "us" finally.

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A male reader, End585 Canada +, writes (5 June 2009):

End585 agony auntMaybe you could tell him that he's really important to you and you wouldn't want to lose him. Even a simple, heartfelt declaration can light something in him.

Maybe he already feel something for you and that's the reason why there is some awkward moment these last time. He sure must have a place for you in his heart because he want to spend time with you and if you tell him how you feel about him, it could trigger a flow of thoughts in him and just make him realize how he feel about you.

But you should tried to confess to him.

(^_^)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2009):

Wait till you next have a moment and then ask him how he feels about you.

Good Luck!! xx

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