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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): You should talk to her!!
I have yet to talk to my own best friend who wears 2 bikini tops.... she has such big boobs and she's always pushing her cleavage up as much as possible to make them look bigger and get the attention of guys more it's embarassing really!
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reader, Tooreal +, writes (6 June 2009):
OMG. Don't laugh. I myself used to wear 2 bras to school all the time. I felt like me breat were so big and make me look bigger than what i really am. I have a lot of friends who do the same for different reasons. You should just talk to her and try to tell you to maybe wear full shirts to cover it up. Be nice about it though and let her know that everyone notices.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): without knowing how to put it nicely, she may have fairly thin bras that her nipples may show through. Women are very different and it can be quite obvious through thin tops, especially in chilly weather!
She doesn't need another person laughing at her, ur nice enough to realise that she needs someone to talk to her, so why dont u just do that. You might find everyone else was just jumping on the bandwagon as well
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reader, well-help +, writes (3 June 2009):
talk to her
she may just think shes flat chested and that no one notices she has 2 bras on
she'll appreciate you helping her
i would do if it was me
xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Tell her in a nice way that everyone finds it funny, talk to her with the aim to make the laughing stop
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reader, niki20 +, writes (3 June 2009):
she might be wearing two bras b/c she is flat chested and there is th illusion that there is more there, they might be for support. are you sure there are two bras not just a bra and under shirt? if she is kind of your friend, def. talk to her, if you were in her situation w/ people laughing at you behind your back wouldnt you want your friend or kind of friend to tell you?? dont laugh about it its mean to do that even if she is only your kind of friend.
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (3 June 2009):
If she's your friend please talk to her. I'm sure she can tell that people are laughing at her and thats no fun. There my be a good reason why she needs to wear two bras.
Please do not laugh along with everyone else. there is nothing worse than when your so called friends laugh behind your back.
By the way, how do you know she's wearing two bras?
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reader, LoveisCure +, writes (3 June 2009):
old guy is completely right but if shes not a friend i think u should leave it alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Well, no, laughing at her with everyone else would make you a pretty bad friend don't you think?If she's not bothered by it, neither should you be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): you should talk to her.. maybe she is wearing two for the support.... or whatever... but the point is even if she is kinda your friend you should talk to her gently...
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good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): If she's a friend, then tell her that she's being ridiculous and becomming an object of ridicule. That's what friends do.
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