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writes:Hey i broke up with my boyfriend early this year and i tried to make things up with him but he refused to take me back.recently he sent me an sms saying a day doesnt pass by without him thinking about me.i dont want to get my hopes up because everytime i do he lets me down.i am so confused i dont know wat to do.but all i know i love hi so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): You should not. Sorry. No expectations=No let downs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): I had known this girl about 6 years back when we were in school.We had an amazing chemistry.............Its been 6 years since i have seen her,many months since i have spoken to he.We live on different continents and i know both of us think about the other on a daily basis.DOnt get your hopes up
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Dear, don't get your hopes up. He may have been looking for you to reciprocate and say the same thing back, just to stroke his ego. Did he ask to speak on the phone or have lunch together? I think he is playing games with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is act like you are done with him and start dating other guys. If he did decide he wanted to get together, have a serious talk with him BEFORE you actually get back into the boyfriend/girlfriend mode. It is before you give in that you have the most power. In the very least, get a promise from him that he will not be breaking up again for at least 6 months, that doesn't seem like much but it will show you how serious he is. There is a reason you two have broken up in the past, has that issue gone away or been resolved? I believe you would be better off finding someone else, there are many men out there that would love to be with you, give them an opportunity :)
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