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male
age
36-40,
*obe daka
writes:Hi,i'm 22 of age i being in the r/ship 2 and half years after 1 and half years we had sex and to find out she was a virgin after talkin about it to have sex in our r/ship we had it ones.After that all changed our r/ship,she came busy with r/ship,no respect like before,acussing me for the things that i know nothing about creating things tha make us always argul,she stoped calling no smsing for 2 month now i'm the 1 calling if i sms she doesn't repy i qestioned what she say no airtime i tlyed to send airtime she does the same but at first we had a heathy r/ship that a man can dream and then 1 time i called her to ask why are you doing that?she told me to be freak with you i'm avoiding coz my parents doesn't like you and my brothers and then she sayed that her parents are going to send to college coz she's going out with me unless she live me they can send her to college thus what she told me we can work our r/ship so to you ants i'm confused i don't know what to do i love her to be honest.Do i break up with her?help. Reply to this Question
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reader, tenfold  +, writes (3 June 2009):
why sacrifice the whole forest just for one single tree?
there are much better girls outside. If you really do love her with all your heart u deserve more.
best of luck.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Sweetie, it certainly sounds like she wants to break up with you but lacks the courage to tell you outright. I suggest that you stop trying to contact her.
I think that she is using her brothers and her parents as excuses to break up with you instead of telling you that she doesnt like you anymore.
Honeygirl
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 June 2009):
If she has stopped contacting you then it seems that she wants to break up but is too cowardly to say so.
Stop talking to her and leave her alone.
Once she has grown up and stops being so scared of her family then she may come back to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (3 June 2009):
 yeah break up with her.
i mean she clearly doesn't know what she wants she's listening to her parents advice saying to leave you alone when she should just listen to her heart and what's right in her mind not theres.
i mean so what if they don't like you they hardly know you and if she does like you then so be it they should be happy with whatever choice she makes.
she clearly don't want to know you at the moment though.
so maybe it's best you call it a day with her.
hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Learn to spell. Your question is impossible to read.
But what I got out of it is this: you had sex and after that she changed. Talk to her about it, tell her she's changed, and if she's not willing to work on the relationship you have to break it off.
Even if you love her. Your heart will heal with time and you can find someone who loves and respects you and who's not going to ignore you.
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