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writes:My fiance and I have our computers next to the bed. I know my fiance watches porn, I don't have a problem with that. It's just a little unsettling when I wake up to him sitting on the end of the bed, at his computer watching porn and pleasuring himself. It's just a little weird for me to wrap my head around ya know. I mean, I am right there, sleeping for pete's sake! He couldn't just wake me up? I mean really? Keep in mind, when I am horny and he is sleeping, I wake him up, or I save that sexual tension for when he is awake.Why would he rather watch porn while I am sleeping then just wake me up when he is horny? He can watch porn all he wants, I don't really care, just not while i'm sleeping right there. It's just making me a little weirded out and I have talked to him about it before, especially after it happened the first time, he's done it from what I know about 7 times so far. It's most likely more but, I just want him to stop doing it while i'm sleeping because it makes me really uncomfortable waking up, looking down at the end of the bed and seeing some girl and guy having sex on his screen and him touching his man parts. I would understand it more if he did it when I wasn't in the room. He never watches porn when I am awake and in the room with him either, he says it's a private thing, then why does he watch it when i'm asleep, just to get embarrassed when I wake up and see what's going on. It makes no sense to me.It's just weird and I wish I could express myself better to at least not do it when I am sleeping right there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): hey this has worked with one of my friends with his addiction to porn...
you might just need to get rid of your computers for just like a week; give them to a trusted friend. show him he doesnt need porn especially when he has you. I find this very selfish and immature that he would do that to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): I don't have an answer or solution for you, but I just wanted to say .... there is nothing less sexy and 'unmanly' than a guy wanking away when you are right there....I don't get it! It really knocks my vision of my mate down a couple of notches, like into the 'pervert' kind of catagory. Sorry you are going through this.
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reader, stellarchik6 +, writes (3 June 2009):
stellarchik6 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not really counting, it's just a generalization of how many times I think it's happened so far. The thing is it's not really in front of me, it's when I am unconscious, there is a difference if you ask me, especially when he can just wake me up and I would be more than happy to take care of his needs. I wish I could put the computer in another room but, we only have one room and it's a very small room. I haven't tried to do the same thing to him because I know he probably won't care and besides that, he's a very heavy sleeper. I just don't like waking up to it is all because of the fact that its so awkward for the both of us.
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