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writes: I need some advice. I have been seeing this man for a couple of months. Everything was going great. I guess they chase you in the beginning. I know he is really a busy man but now he is calling less often. What does that mean? Is he just getting comfortable in this relationship or do you think he's trying to gradually get away or just busy? What should I do? I hate to do anything wrong but should I start dating others? I really like him. I just dont know what's going on. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Try not contacting him... no initiated phone calls, texts, etc. from you... if he contacts you... maybe all is fine and he is just getting comfortable. If he doesn't... you have your answer.
Also, it doesn't hurt to throw some mystery into the relationship. Call him back an hour later... or if he tries to make plans... say you already have plans that night and offer a different night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): I dont think you seem to understand the foundation of a normal and healthy relationship.Just because he isnt calling you every waking moment does not mean hes less interested in you. And think of it this way, IF he did call you and see you all the time, how would you feel?You would feel undoubtedly smothered, and eventually youll be the one to hurt him, because youll want space. Be very careful what you wish for..
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reader, 48years  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 If you see a man for a couple of months, and he calls less often, it is likely that he's not interested in you. I'm sorry to say what you already know in your heart. By all means, go out and see others until you find the one who won't stop calling you and will love you so dearly that he can find the time to call even if he's on his way to Europe for a huge business meeting.
A guy who's besotted FINDS A WAY to call you. Do not settle for less, because if you settle for less now, even less will come your way... more or less...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): It is unreasonable to expect a man to always run after you. He has other responsibilities and if he has to many, you will wear him out.
Dating also requires you to put equal share and effort into it too. It is nice to live in a dream on occassion, but to much wears out the money pocket and strength.
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