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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello my girl friend and I play halo online and a lot of guys hit on her. she is a friendly person so she talks to them. A few of them have been talking more and more to her and she stays up very late playing with them and when I finally get to i feel like im at a lost and dont play well with her cus she sounds like she is having more fun with the other guy and talking to him more.she is very talkive and I am more quite so i feel like im getting left out. I know its stupid to be jealous b/c its online and not real life but I cant help it. how should i go about channeling that into something help full for our relationship?
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Sometimes people need a bit of attention when they're in a relationship...You get used to the same person, the spark dims a bit, then all of a sudden you have other people flirting with you, boosting your confidence, making you feel good about yourself...Alot of my girlfriends do this when they get stuck in a rut in their relationships - although they go out to clubs and get the attention face to face, so just be glad your girlfriend is only in the other room and not out getting attention other ways :)
Talk to her, tell her how you feel. I can see how you would feel silly, I would too, but I totally get where you'te coming from xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): I think you should say what you've just written to her... you know your girlfriend, we don't. Just tell her what you feel, good luck :-) xx
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reader, deadheart123  +, writes (3 June 2009):
no it is not stupid, if it was me i would get jealous too.
you can tell her how you feel and hope she gets the right idea.
or you can just move on with your life, try to ignore what she does to you and make some new friends
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