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writes:I m 18 year old, My fiance and I together for 6 months. He thinks that I'm not show him for enough love with him. I told him many time I do fall in love with him, He is blind and wont be remember this my word. He cant move on for last year, I did make mistake last year with my best friend. I decide to pick my fiance over my best friend for will be together with my fiance! How i suppose said to him for love advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Ok.. So either you cheated on your fiance last year with your best friend, or you were with your best friend before you were with your finace, and he can't get over the jealousy.. It's very vague what you've written so those are my two guesses at your mistake.
If you cheated on him, then you're lucky to still be with him at all. Most people wouldn't stick around with a cheater, let alone get engaged to them. That calls for your understanding and unending patience.
HOWEVER
If you were with your friend before you even got with your fiance, then he's just being insecure and needs to move on. In a lot of situations like this for a lot of people, it would make things far far easier if you would stop talking with your best friend. That's the thing to do if you love your finace and are willing to sacrifice another relationship to put him at ease and make him happy. But this is certainly not something that you HAVE to do. I think you should sit him down and have one last discussion about this "mistake" you've made. Get all his questions and concerns out in the open. even if you already have do it agian, and answer everything he wants an answer to. Go on for as long as is needed by him. Tell him that this is the last time you will discuss your past because you didn't do anything wrong. Have a good long talk about it and then tell him to leave it alone. That you can't live with him pounding you about it forever.
I'm not sure which if these, if either is relevant to you, but that's all i have to say. Take care
~Sy.
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