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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello. Well I need help here....to know where I'm standing...I met this guy on a bar (he works there) and ask me for my cellphone. He works close to my house and I always see him and chat. Anyway, last thursday he came home after work to have a couple of wine. It was going to be only that...cause I wanted more things from him...so wanted to be 'special'. Taliking with him, I realized he is a player and doesn't want anything, sooo I slept with him letting him know that, from my point of view this was the only thing that was going to happen between us, cause I see him like a player. Well then he stayed a little bit longer and confess me he has 3 girlfriends! THREE! Haha I started laughing and we chatted about it, my point of view (cause he was telling me he got stuck in the situation and was asking me what was he supposed to do). That was it .. then he went home.On Sunday I see him and tells me that he dumped one of the girls, that he wanted to change, that he is tired of being with a lot of girls, that he wants to get married, etc...He never said anything about us, cause he knows I only see him like a friend sooo far... Anyway here the thing, I like the guy, but at the same time he is a player and been dating that kind before...I don't get why the sudden change..why he wants to change and tells me...Once a player, always a player? Maybe cause I told him from the beggining that that was it ... or he is comfortable telling me all those stuffs.? What do you think of it? Is he relaying on me? Or maybe he likes me and want to change my point of view on him? Thank you...sorry cause it is sooooooo long XD Cheers...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): Take your story, and strip away all the grownup talk about casual sexual encounters and acting very mature about things.
Now just take the raw chain of desires and actions and look what you have:
You originally wanted a relationship with him, but you found out he's a player. So you slept with him anyway. Now you're wondering if he's different/changed because of things he is saying to you.
Hmmm . . This story begins to sound very familiar now, doesn't it?
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