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female
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anonymous
writes:I had this guy friend who is 3years older than me.We knew each other ever since I was 6years old.It started off as good and funny friends until I was 12years old.I had my first love,but it just ended with a heartbreak.So what I did was turn to this childhood friend of mine,and he lended an ear.I didn't now that during those times he was in love with me big time.How could I know?He didn't say anything...This guy was my first crush whe I was 7years old.Even I had my first love before he remained special to me this day.It's been 3years,only having the chance to meet him about 3times.So my question is what exactly am I feeling?I feel happy whenever he's around,I know it isn't physical attraction,coz believe it or not,I haven't even touched him for the last 10years!(not even a poke)I deeply care for him,and feel this very special bond that really can't understand.And,if he would have a girlfriend(he never had one yet,though he's in college,but I know someday he will)I'll get a little jealous somehow..He told me just recently that he has let go of me,I also did the same letting destiny take the wheel.But if I am destined to be with him?My answer is,I guess I don't mind,after all I know,how great a person he is.
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (3 August 2009):
Hi there,It sounds to me as though you have an intimate relationship with this guy. There is trust, honesty, support from him and he is emotionally available to you.You saw him as a friend and if you haven't experienced romance before, it's hard to know when someone likes you unless they tell you. I would say you're having romantic feelings for him because now you know his true feelings for you. You're seeing him in a different light. The trouble is, if you become romantic with him, you risk losing the friendship you have built over the years. If you leave it, you may miss the opportunity of having a very suitable partner. It's a risk either way, so I guess you'll have to weigh it all up. Good luck.
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