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*yadsaoub
writes:Hey .. my name is iyad I be married for over 3 years ... I am 26 .. my wife kerri she is 22 years .. she work 2 jobs and hard jobs she is a manger for store and scond job is delivery news pepars .. so from frist of july she change her life with me .. be4 she was vary good so close with me kiss sex love goin out have more time togother all time I alwes take care of her . What ever she want I give it to her what ever she like I get it to her ... I love her so much .. and I love her from all my heart .. and I want her for ever to the end like I meen to I die ... so from frist of july she have friends from work girls but I find out that she in love with some man justin he work with her so I don't know that she like love him I was thinking that she is only friend with him .. so now she never sleep she alwes txt msgin in cellphone and she alwes call him in phone and he call her he txt her like crazy so last week she had crash her car by the tree cuz she fell sleep and she was goin to work so when the police take her to emergancy room I still with her to hosptail so I see her cellphone alwes get txt msg and call so I see name justin so I say omg who is that so I didn't answer so when I cheked the cellphone I see his pic and love msg I say oh no . ..!! I can't blieve that she do that .. omg omg .. so the next day I ask her about him she say oh this my friend from work I say ok so why u have his pic in ur cellphone .. she like oh he like try kill he self cuz his girlfriend and I say ok but u love him or love me she say I love both I say what!! I say who love more she say I don't know !! I say u married me for 3 years and u don't know who u love more she I don't know I say omg so I say u wanna still with me for ever she said I don't know yet I said why u do that to me she said cuz u not nice with me and u never help me no more .. I said what u meen ?? . She said u have to help cleen the house u have to stop be meen to me u have to go away some time wen I goin out with friends I said ok I tell u go out with friend all time just girl but with no mans she said nope I have to go with every one what ever I want .I said ok what ever take ur time .. so right now from like 4 days I cleen the house vary good all the house and I stop ask her any thing so today I ask her do u love me she say yea I do snd I ask her so u like that what I do she said yea I said ok so u like to stay with me for ever she said I don't know yet I have to see u in my eyes I have to watch u all time for like 8 or 9 month then I told u .. I said what?! Why all that time so I ask her did u goin out with him she said 2 times I ask her by ur self u and him she yea I ask her did u ever kiss him she said 3 times did u ever have sex she said oh nooooooo I ask u love him she said oh yea I do so omg omg ... I don't know what I have to do I love my wife so much from all my heart and I love her for ever I want her to stay with me for ever like all my life this my frist women I love her I never goin out with any women after I love her I need to be my kids mother soon and I don't have kids yet I love her as crazy I love her soooo much I can't forget her .... plz help me and tell me what the best thing to do for her to make her to love me like crazy please help me please be4 I lost my mind and lost my self please help help thank u so much .. Reply to this Question
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 do you not think it is abit disrespectful that this lady is supposed to be committed to you yet is in the arms as another man.do you really want to be second best?do you want to share her?i know if i was in ur situation i wouldnt.you cant make your wife love you and if shes able to do this to u within only 3 years of your marriage then i believe she loves u fully.maybe u should talk to her about the fact that shes having an affair and ask her what she really wants.many women cheat because they are not getting the attention they want from their current partners or are not being treated very well maybe she feels unhappy in the relationship with u that she is trying to spice it up with someone else.you should really talk to her find out what she wants and you need to think truthfully whether you can handle her having affairs and not being tht 100% in love with you good luck
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