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I don't know which guy to be with!

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Question - (27 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *lahyu writes:

ok well let me see here,....im 19 with 2 kids. they both have different fathers and im not with either of them im with my boyfreind of 11 months now..but it doesnt seem the same anymore it really seems different to me since i came back from visiting my oldest daughters family on her dads side.....i started having feelings for my oldest daughters dad and it sucks because now i want to move out to where he lives and his family(in my own place) so she can have her dad. seeing as my youngest daughters dad doesnt really make an effort to do anything anyways, maybe i should be alittle bit farther so that he has to make an effort to see her!...i just i cant figure out what to do, i know i dont love the guy im with, but i do have feelings for him and i do care about him. and then theres my oldest daughters dad and the feelings are coming back. so what do i do?, do i stay where i am with the guy im with or do i go to my oldest daughters dad and be together with him?!?! help someone please

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntThere is a reason that you are no longer with this man. Think about it. Even if the feelings aren't there for your bf, they might come there soon.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

first one if you think it will work. if you decide not to go back,end it with the guy you are with because he should be getting better than is on offer with you.

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A female reader, eac78 United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

my sis is goin through the i have feelings yet i dont love him dump him now.... go back and have a real family

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