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writes:Me and this guy had a huge crush on each other. He is very popular and handsome. All the women wants him and he has slept around so many times. We met at work. Anyway, things didn't work out especially since I found out he is married. We didn't have sex or get a real chance to go out. Well I stop calling him and answering his text so he could go away. He stop texting me but will send a blank text every now and then and I won't respond. He started coming up to the job but he won't speak to me. He just comes up their to do his work. I switched my shift to midnights to avoid further irritation but, he started coming to work on midnights. He ignores me but stares at me when I am not looking. One day, he called up to the job and asked how I was doing. The conversation went good until he said "you know you owe me" I asked him what does he mean and he said "you will see what I mean". I am completely freaked cause I don't know If he is serious of Bull-ishing me. I usually don't make big deals about things and it's hard for me to tell someone. Should I just let it ride? Please someone tell me if I am paranoid!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Record your conversations and go to the police.
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reader, Tarianna  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I think he is resentful that he has been rejected or he didn't get what he's used to get from women freely and with little cojolimg....all i can say is to tell him to leave you the hell alone and be serious about it....might be even threaten to tell his wife about what he has done or sometihing or you'll tell the cops or get him fired...scare him
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (27 July 2009):
 What do you think it means? That he wants you to bake him a cake? don't forget the frosting!
sorry about the levity, but its painfully obvious what he means
He means that in his opinion, that since you didnt have sex with him, that he expects you to screw him now. Simple as that. He is married, and he's a pig. He wants to spread his frosting all over your bunt cake.
Tell him to leave you alone and don't come around your job or you'll have him arrested for stalking
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Just don´t mind him saying that. There was a guy at work who used to say that to me. A the beginning I thought he meant he wanted sex or something shady, until I stand up to him and said "Well, if I owe you please tell me so I can pay you mother******, or do you want me to go pay your wife instead, But stop threatening me OK".
He stopped when he saw I was serious and until today I don´t even look at him.
Good Luck!
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reader, actiondbj +, writes (27 July 2009):
This guy is a freak! It sounds he starting to stalk you,but not behind your back. From this guy's prospective I would be careful and watch your back. This guy may be a little twested! Do Not Let It Ride!!!
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