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writes:my wife works at a small buisness run bye a close friend of the family. i think she is having her cake and eating it with the bosses son who is working with my wife she comes home from work and does not shut up about this person when i ask her about him she goes on the defence and starts to say i work with him all day we get on well we carry on have a laugh we even touch each other like what i said we nip each others bums in passing. so i think there is more to this that she is not letting on about she as even started to wearshort skirts for work she never before wore them till the bosses son started to work there
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Yep, take it for what it is, but at least keep your eyes open. as opposed to what some here say, women being able to keep an affair a secret is a myth. They eventually get caught just like men...don't believe that bs...lol wtf? Read the posts here if you don't believe me.
Buddy, what does your gut tell you? Please feel to PM me and I will be more than happy to steer you towards some resources you may want to check out. It would suck to be the last one to find out.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I agree, if she was cheating she wouldn't be talking about him so much.And as for the skirts, maybe she feels more confident? Im not sure, maybe you could casually bring up the fact that she never used to wear them? but not in an angry way or she will get defensive
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): When women have affairs, they are generally very good at keeping them secret. They can have a relationship for years or even decades without you suspecting a thing. If she was carrying on with him, she wouldn't have mentioned him. If he's the only person she sees at work all day, and if she has a limited social circle, it's no surprise that she talks about him a lot. When we get home, we talk to our partners about what happened at work. If she worked in a large office with a lot of colleagues, she would probably talk about them too.
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