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*unnybunny
writes:ive been in a long distance relationship for 8 months . and on friday i am going to see him for the weekend but last night he said he doesnt tink its working out.spoke to him today and he said he still wants me to go and see him and he still loves me but it is over but we need to see each other face to face . i told him i have excepted it if thats what he wants but i really havnt please help.
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reader, hunnybunny +, writes (27 July 2009):
hunnybunny is verified as being by the original poster of the question i really dont think it is a bootie call as he has said i can stay at his mums which another reason im going down as i have become very close to his family including his 3 year old daughter
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reader, jj.  +, writes (27 July 2009):
its most likely a bootie call and you dont need that ..guys are good at bootie calls and especially if they are breaking up with you..if this is true ..well watch out..
talk to him but dont offer up some bootie ok..
let him talk and you listen then you can find out if he really wants love or just bootie call..check it out..
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (27 July 2009):
Its hard to do a long distance relationship and they rarely last but they should be fun while they last.
he should have broken up with you face to face if you are going to see him this weekend but now that he has done it over the phone i dont know why he would want to see you.
Personally i think it would be him hoping for a good bye fling with you.
sounds like you would be better off moving on with your life and closing this chapter.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 July 2009):
He wants to split up face to face.
Go along and it will help you once you have talked things through.
When you leave at the end of the weekend, say your goodbyes and then don't see him or speak to him again for at least 3 weeks.
Getting over someone is hard but you can get through it. There are several good articles on this site about it, and many other websites that will help you.
Do a bit of reading, and then take a deep breath and start imagining yourself as a young sexy single woman.
Good Luck!! xx
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