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writes:my partner of 5 years, who i have two young children to, watches hardcore shemale porn and only she male porn. when we have sex, he has trouble getting his penis up. it seems it only comes up when he plays with my anus. he loves anal sex and i really dislike it. he comes across as such a homophobic. am i just a cover foe something he dosent realise he is. he dosent know i know he watches this porn.
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reader, King_Vegeta  +, writes (5 March 2010):
OP, don't listen to that ignorant annonymous woman. How can you suggest your partner of FIVE years may be gay???If he was, he would straight up view gay porn with REAL men!I am 100% straight and view tranny porn, so I can help and be of service. If he now only views shemale porn, it probably means he is/was a porn addict and has moved on to something more hardcore and visually stimulating; shemale porn. Women get very threatened, and only see a penis on shemales which they think equals male.Pre-op, ultra feminine shemales are obvioulsy different from your average guy, no?I accidently view tranny porn when I was scrolling for Big-butts and anal galleries. It almost seems like a natural progression as shemales are fully geared towards anal, and have surgically made perfect asses to boot.The allure of the shemale is not in the dick, the dick just acts as a cue to show how excited the shemale is, as opposed to vaginas, which is not so obvious. So even if he is turn-on by a shemale getting fucked with an erect penis - STILL doesn't mean his gay, believe it or not.I bet 100% he finds nothing attractive about men. The reason why shemale porn can be so addictive is because it is so extreme and visually stimulating than your normal everyday sex. To add, it just feels so taboo, it gets intriguing...even when most people feel ashamed afterward. Its hard to, but try to understand.Secondly, don't approach him straight up and put him in the defensive. HELP your loved one. Maybe learn more about anal sex if that turns him on, learn how it could turn you on. Spice up your love life a little. These days, I just won't get excited at all with my girl just laying there, shes gotta do something too. But I can 99% guarantee he is NOT gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): It's not a nice thing to hear but I would say that your hubby more than likely is gay. Shemales are MEN. Some are stunning, they have gorgeous faces and long hair but they still possess penises and some have nipples and no breasts whereas others do have breasts. They possess big feet and still have certain manly attributes about their appearances. They have penises which they often play with when they're being penetrated ANALLY by another MAN/other MEN. If he's into shemale porn and is also very homophobic then I would say it's looking likely that he is gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): There is nothing wrong with anal sex. Personally I'd be worried about if my partner watched to much porn and always wanted. Maybe he is batting for the otherside. Only one way to find out - ask. Never settle for second best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Hi, if I was you I would tell him that I know about the vid's but i'd try an not make it out as a big thing. So that when he answers there's more of a chance of him being truthful. Sorry I couldn't be much help. I discovered my older brother who's 29 is gay an said he has been most of his life but why I was more saprized was that he was married an had a son (it turned out that was a cover up & I'm not proud he hurt her) I pray that's not the case for you.
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