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writes:Ok my first question so here we go... I got out of a bad relationship about six months ago and since then I started chatting to a girl I have known for many years well she rang me on Wednesday night from tesco and I said I fancyed some lemon chessecake and she bought me some and dropped it over to me we chilled for a few hours then left... Well Saturday came around and she called me and I menationed I was hungry so she said lets go out and eat so she picked me up and we went out for lunch that she paid for which was nice then we went back to her house were I sat up stairs chatting to her while she got ready to go out with her friends I used her car to drop them off and went out myself I then picked her up at 4 o'clock in the morning went to antho club then after that I was dropping her home she asked me in so I acepted. I was sat in the front room when she went up stairs to the toilet she then came down in a short night wear and said come on lets go to bed. We got in robed with little on I massaged her feet and legs while we talked and laughed we feel a sleep in each others arms which felt so nautral. We woke up late that afternoon and stayed in bed cuddling for a few hours till we decieced to get up and get ready to go have Sunday lunch... So my question is shall I make a move on her next time I see her because I not long got out a bad relationship and was she giving me signal that she wants me. ?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Have a wonderful time and I hope things work out for you! Nice to hear a happy ending!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 There you go! I'm happy for you.
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reader, Midnite +, writes (28 July 2009):
Midnite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thanks for all your comments thought I would
up date you on things well she rang me last night and came over to see me and we sat on the sofa chatting and having a laugh then I start massage her feet for her then has she tickled my head has time flew by it got late so I asked if she wanted to stay so she did we stayed up chatting for a while has she cuddled into me then I lent over and kissed her and it felt perfect. Even this morning wake up beside her again felt right in every way...
Were off to longleat next week with her little one for A day out together
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 July 2009):
You know what I think you should do? Ask this girl out on a proper date. Take her to dinner or to hear live music or go dancing or whatever it is you both like to do. That is, do this if you think you'd like to get to know her better.
If the question is just, "will she say yes to having sex?", well, seems to me she pretty much likes having you around, so I would say it's not an unreasonable expectation that she would be willing at some point in the near future. Boy, that was a lot of words to say, yes, she probably would go to bed with you soon.
But I have this romantic streak in me, one that I think most women have, and that leads us to want to be wooed and won. (I know, I know, you were in her bed already, but still...) And if you really fancy her, why not treat her to a nice evening out and show her that you like her company as well as the cuddles?
Good luck, and let us know how things go.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 July 2009):
Not only did you get the green light, the street is wide and you can speed, man.
Ever saw "Fast and the Furious"? You can't go any faster...
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reader, boo22 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I think its safe to say you've got the green light, lol. Hope it works out for you both
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
I think you got more than the signal, however next time i think you should just check before you go the whole way, as you feel the moment approaching say something along the lines of do you want us to move forward.. as in like do you want us to be together. Talk to her honestly see what she wants, all the signals are there just to be on the safe side ask her how shes feeling. I think your both thinking and feeling along the same lines, enjoy yourselves!
Best of luck
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