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writes:hi ive just started the sumer holidays and there is this girl in a lot of my classes who is pretty and i like that added me on facebook. we were talking on comments and i THINK that we are flirting. she comments on my status a lot and i comment on hers... how shall i ask her out, im not going to do it on facebook but shall i wait until summer is over or shall i invite her to meet somewhere and have a take away and ask her out.. or shall i get to know her better 1st?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the answers but she is rarely ever online anymore so...
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reader, cheysula  +, writes (28 July 2009):
Personally, I see nothing wrong with asking her out via Facebook, if that is the way you two are used to conversing. (Obviously, use a private message.) My best friend asked her boyfriend out for the first time on AIM.I don't suggest you wait until summer is over. Summer is the best time to get to know each other without any pressure. It sounds like you have some chemistry now, so take advantage of it while it's there. Maybe you could try to go to a party that she is attending (I assume you have mutual friends). Then when you meet there, you can ask her out for another time for just the two of you.
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 ask for her messenger, start to get each other better. When things are more friendly, ask her to go to the movies, or do something together, something casual, see if theres chemistry. Good luck,
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
Have a mix of all, get to know her see where that goes and then ask her out, see how long it takes. Who knows you could enjoy the summer with her by getting to know her in person. Start having fun, its what summers all about. Id meet up with her face to face, its more personal and you get to know each other better.
Best of luck
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reader, msiluvr666 +, writes (27 July 2009):
I think you should get to know her on a friend level first, and then ask her out. it's better to know as much about the person as possible before you start dating.
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reader, Jamez +, writes (27 July 2009):
 just meet up with her and go out with her and see where it goes, then hopefully you will start making out if the time is right then just ask her out!good luck jamez
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reader, stilllovinghim  +, writes (27 July 2009):
Well first of all do you guys talk in person? If not then yes you should get to do it so that it won't be to awkward when you go out alone and stuff! But if you do then it would be nice to tell her to meet somewhere romantic and after having fun talking or whatever by surprise ask her!
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