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Shes verbaly abusive! Should I split?

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Question - (27 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A male Netherlands age 30-35, *rBrightside90 writes:

Hey there,

This story might be somewhat long and tedious, but here I go.

I just had a big fight with my girlfriend. She made a comment that was makeing me feel very sad, so I made that clear. But she was saying that I am manipulating the situation. She was very verbal abusive, I couldnt handle my emotions anymore and cried. All she said was; you cant make me feel guilt, and i dont care that you feel this way.

Then i tried to solve our fight, but nothing i said worked. She kept saying that i was manipulation the conversation, but i could not figure out why she would say that.

The conversation ended with her saying; if this hapens once more then its over for me.

No this girl has told me that she loves me, and that se can not be without me. We have been together for over a year now. I dont believe her anymore when she says i love you.

What do you guys think, Im seriously concidering breaking up with her. Note; this is not the first time something like this happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

Sounds like the woman I live with who wishes I'd call her "mom." We had a big argument once and I cried and she accused me of trying to blackmail her.

Leave this woman for your own sanity.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

i believe you shouldnt go along with her

get separated

if she really understood you,she would clarify what she meant

it takes lot of patience and understanding to have a good relationship

all the best!

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A male reader, MrBrightside90 Netherlands +, writes (28 July 2009):

MrBrightside90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Well ive been with her for over a year, and i think i really love her. But this has just hurt my feelings so much, i dont know if i do love her anymore.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

ok this is a female writing and all i have to say is that you should dump her ass. if she's verbally abusive then i really don't know why your still with her. the only good reason i can think of is that you still have feelings for her, but i say you should just move on and forget about her

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