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She's 17, nearly 18 and pregnant - we're so worried about her mother and brother's reaction!

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Question - (27 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *jmanny64 writes:

Hello Aunts and Uncles,

Me and my partner had sex about a month ago and the condom split when using tingle durex condoms. My partner has been worried ever since and we decided to get a pregnancy test 4 days after we had sex. The test came back as non-pregnant so all was well. She started to feel sick in morning and always getting angry at little things so today I went and got her another test 2 weeks after we had sex and it came back pregnant!!

We are ready for a baby but the fact of her mum finding out scares me! Also her brother because he is not all that in the head and he would turn round and try and stab her stomach or stab me, that's what he is like.

I told her that we have two options and Ill stand by her no matter what. We are capable of a baby because we both work, got high money coming in and we have had experince with my little sister and her little sister too. What should I do?

She said if she is to keep it then she will move in with her dad and tell her mum on the phone because put it this way her dad doesnt really give a flying who but her mum does. Her mum aint like no other mum and she looses her temper easily!

I told her not to tell anyone yet because it would only make it hard for both of us. Her mum can't really make her have a abortion. I can understand if she was 14/15 but she is 17 nearly 18 and she is old enough to make her own choices.

What should we do...so worried about her mums/brothers reaction. THEY WILL KILL ME LITERALLY!!

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntUm have the the baby they can't kill you well, doubt they will, that would be illegal

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