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Is he my boyfriend?

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Question - (27 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A female Netherlands age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so i was at a party and i was talking to this one guy who i have a mutual friend with and we have hung out together a couple of times but never alone. so he texted me while i was there and said we should hang out with out all these people around and so i brought him home one wendsday. we had sex that night the next day and the next day. its sunday now. he hasnt left he brought clothes and all this shit to my house. i asked him what we were and he said he didnt know. he tells me he likes me and stuff but then his friend tells me that he is talking to 2 other girls. i mean what the hell he is practically living with me he seemed perfect but he now is talking to other girls in front of me! what should i doooo???????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

You should have thought about this before you hooked up with him. If he really wants to be fully committed to you as your "boyfriend" he wouldn't be unsure about you. tell him to pack his stuff & HIKE the hell out your crib!

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A female reader, platinumfocus Canada +, writes (27 July 2009):

platinumfocus agony auntYou can't assume anything without talking to him. It doesn't sound like you know him very well, and it's hard to tell what he thinks is going on.

You also said he is "talking" to other girls. Do you mean, like telling them he likes them too? If he's just talking, that's one thing.

If it bothers you, you should talk to him. Good luck.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntGet him out of your house, that is what you should do! Who told him he could bring all of his sh*t to your house anyways? Show him the door!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

He's your boyfriend when he says he's your boyfriend out loud to you and others. Him sleeping with you is NO SIGN of any commitment on his part.

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