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writes:what can i do ?i did post about this earlier-as a recap i split with my fiance 6 years ago we havent spoke since 2005the other night i get an email requesting facebook friendship from him so i accept and go on his site to see hes married and theres all the wedding photos etc everyones happy etc i felt quite upset seeing this and seeing what he looked like after 6 years.so anyway what happens now-am i a friend as in my names stuck on his profile or a real friend.i cant contact him because hes married and i respect that so why on earth has he got in conatct with me. why would you want to dredge up a past ex if you just got married 3 months ago. i hope hes not being nasty as theres no need for it i just dont know what hes thinking what can i do please help ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): hey, you are analysing too much here. in the end it ewill make you sick. just let it be - if you can
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reader, life.is.good.  +, writes (27 July 2009):
youre thinking too much into this... if u want no contact with him because he is married why are u stressing over it... delete him... or keep him as a friend n jst dont pay attention to it.... simple.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): some people dont think of ex's as bad... im friends with all me yx's on facebook, and i dont see this as a problem at all. hes not bringing up the past, he probably just say a suggestion and decided to add you. its no big deal, and if you dont want to talk to him anyway cos hes married why are you worrying about it?!? either delete him or keep him as a friend and be just that. this isnt really a problem! people are going through so much and youre worrying about this? argggh
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reader, jam22 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Yeah he appears to have been curious not malicious. Anyway, send him a quick "congrats" and delete him as a friend.. Good luck to you
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reader, Nora_Bird  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 He must have been curious about you and wanted to see how you were doing. If it hurts you to see his new life after all these years, I would just delete him as a friend because there is really no reason for you to be in contact with him, right?
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