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Woman on top?

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Question - (27 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, *dcuptx writes:

I'm a BBW plus size woman. My man is tall but he's not heavy. The first time he asked me to get ontop during sex, we had a hard time trying to get his penis inside of me. He usually has a soft erection until he enters me and gets started so "we" tried to put his penis in me when his erection was a little soft and we could never get it to stay inside. My question is....does this mean I am too big to straddle him...or is he too soft or not a big enough penis. He is average size when fully erect maybe 5.5 inches in length. I have had this problem before keeping a penis inside when I'm ontop and usually...it is with a smaller size penis...what gives? I need advice. I don't want him to do all the work all the time!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

Try a scissors position. You on your side with one leg between his legs and one leg wrapped around his hip. You can rock and squirm. Drives em wild. Another hot position is reverse cowgirl. Might be tough with a short penis. Straddle him facing his feet. Make sure his legs are together and be careful not to hurt his stuff. Very sensual position.

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A female reader, citris United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

citris agony auntYou could always try starting out however works best to get him nice and hard, then moving positions so that you can take over and be on top. Changing things up is always nice in the bedroom and can help keep the spark alive. I applaud your efforts, keep working it!

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