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writes:My cousin has a friend. I get on very well with his friend. His friend is very good looking. My cousin's younger sister and I both have a crush on his friend. My older cousin, his friend, and me are all 14. My younger couin is 12. My cousins friend has shown an interest in me, and we often hang out together. We went to an AC/DC concert with my cousin in April, and had a great time. I would love to ask him out, but I'm worried about how my younger cousin will react to my taking an interest in him. Should I pursue a relationship with him, or should I not?
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I think you will be fine to ask him out, after all your cousin is only 12 and a bit young to be into boys! If you are really worried about hurting her feelings then just tell her that you really like him and want to ask him out, and that he has shown an interest in you, then ask if she will be ok with it. I think if you go to her first and explain how you feel about him she might respect that and be happier to give you the go-ahead because you went to her first.
I cant see why she would get upset over it, after all it is only a boy! I'm sure there will be someone else she likes in a couple of weeks time anyway!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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