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writes:My girl of 2 and a half years broke up with me for another guy who's closer to home and more affectionate. She was 18 just turned 19 and he's 24.Still I love and miss her and i dont know why. Its been 2 months and she told a mutual friend that she cares about me a lot and sees herself with me in the future. She recently got pissed at me bc i texted her back a day after she texted me. She said I was “fake” and that her family saying that i care about her was all lies bc she said “you always have your phone on you” and she couldn't understand why i didnt text back. We dont really talk. It seems like she tries to make some kind of contact by either texting me or poking me on facebook even though were not facebook friends or friends in general about once a week. What does this mean? Why would she say she sees herself with me in the future after what she has done and how I was treated? Why freakout about me texting her back when she replaced me? please help
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reader, life.is.good. +, writes (27 July 2009):
my honest opinion... i think shes being possesive... she knows she totally fucked up and now she wants to mend things? or maybe shes being selfish and still feels something for u n doesnt want u to move on? idk it could be a million things... but bottom line do u really feel like u want to be in a relationship with a girl like this? move on... u deserve better
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reader, Nougatxxx  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I Know how you feel i was just in a simalar situation my friends all told me there will be another boy right round the corner and a few weeks later i had a new boyfriend i no how hard it is to forget someone, and hopefully there will be someone else, well i hope it all works out for you and that my advice was useful Good Luck :) x
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reader, josephy  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 who doesn't want you, don't cry after. always know that you deserve the best, don't accept less. I wanted to say don't give up, try to talk to her, ask, see what's wrong but think of it is this really works? I don't think so, you know what you have to do but you need someone to tell you (the answers for your questions is just in your mind its inside you}try to come out with it no one knows how to solve ur problem better than yourself.
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
I dont feel shes over you yet, shes gone into a relationship when shes not ready shes putting you in an unfair postion. Shes irritated that you havent returned her calls as she doesnt like the sound of you moving on, although its the best thing for you she hates it.
What gave her the right to have this hold over you, she lost all the rights when it ended and she moved on.
You cant live your life waiting in hope for the what ifs, she made this descion and she needs to carry it through or move on. The best thing you could both do is try and move forward seperately, its clear you didnt work together and not a lot will change that.
If she was genuine in her feelings towards you then it wouldnt of ended and she would be expecting this of you.
You know the answers, the signs are clear do the right thing for you for once.
Best of luck
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Maybe she realizes that she made a mistake and she wants you to prove to her that she did. She wants you to prove to her that her family is wrong and that you love her.
I think that because she made the mistake she needs to mend things, though. Maybe she is just seeing if you are still available. She should've trusted you.
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