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writes:help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what happened to me! i still love him with all of my heart and soul and always will! i have never been with another man and dont want to be with one! my ex come home and told my he still loved me ? we have 4 boys. and 6 grandchildren. my ex stated he wanted to be with me and his family but!!!!!! he still called his mistress every chance he got! am i being used or being stupid.
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reader, jan123  +, writes (27 July 2009):
oh my god, poor you!i was married 3oyears when my hubby had his affair and that was only 8 months ago!!!i started divorce proceedings then he wanted to come home, said he had been a fool. a big understatement can type what i think but lets just go bleep bleep and ill let you fill it in...lolcant beleive i laughed at that as im still going through torture with it all.cant imagine being decieved 30 years and commend you on your sanity,you do what you feel is best for you, when you start to ask for answers you gonna hear things you dont want to ...i remember some one saying to me "thank god its not happening to me" didnt help me of course but it made me think that only i can answer the questions in my head so why say anything at all. but ive been there and yes i think i can see light at the end of the tunnel though some days its cloudy..i wish you all the luck in the world..
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 July 2009):
 You have to accept that he will never commit to just you. If you can accept this then fine, take him back, but if you can't then don't let him back into your life. Out of your thirty seven year marriage you only had him (and that's iffy too) for seven of them. It's up to you which way to go, I know what I'd do however.
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