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*dviceQueen013
writes:Ok..I am 14 and I have a 17 year old boyfriend..and all last week I was over his house and half of the time while I was there we had unprotected sex but everytime he is about to "bust" he take it out for awhile and we start again, while we were having sex he asked me did I want his baby and every since then I have been scared and have been thinking that I am pregnant for some reason. But what I am wanting to know is "If I get pregnant by him, what will happen to him?"
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (27 July 2009):
Olivia Y has given you perfect advice
the only thing i want to ad is that even if he does pull out you can still get pregnant, I am assuming y ou are not aware that whilst you are having sex a man can release pre cum which is just a small amount of fluid but this still contains live sperm.
Take two types of precaution! the pills and a condom are probably the best for someone your age.
to be honest your boyfriend at his age should know better and shouldn't even be having sex with you and definitly not putting you in the position of possibly becomeing pregnant.
If he refuses to use a condom then he obviously doesn't respect you as you should also be carefull od sexually transmitted diseases.
I am interested to know how long you two have been dating for?
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Babe i have made your mistake.
When i ws 14 my boyfriend was 17 and we had unprotected sex and i missed 3 periods, thinking i was pregnant i went to him and we told his mother who gave me a test and it came back negitive.
She is a doctor and said if i had of been pregnant, as part of her job she would of had to call social services which would of contacted the police to arrest my boyfriend on child abuse and rape, then social services could of sued my parents for not looking after me, under 16 are the responsibilty of their parents.
So you are putting your boyfriend and your parents at risk.
If you are going to have sex then at least use two types of protection eg. condoms, pill, implant etc.. Tbh its just commen sence and its stupid not to because not only will it mess your life up, it will mess your boyfriends life up to.
Livia
xoxox
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reader, HateMyLife +, writes (27 July 2009):
Jail, he would get locked up for child abuse
i dont think there is anything wrong in what u r doing. U both are willing and u both know the risks. If u did get pregnant it would be just as much ur fault as it is his
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 So why do you choose to have unprotected sex with him? Do you have hopes and dreams for your future? Are you an intelligent individual?
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reader, stilllovinghim  +, writes (27 July 2009):
You guys should use protection when doing it! I mean do you really want to get pregnant now?? Your only 14! Have fun with your life while you can! Your still young so why start thinking about a baby?? Worry about it when your older and married! Imagine if you get pregnant.. what will your parents say?? your father would probably kill him for touching his daughter in such an inapropiately way! Yow two can still have sexual intercourse but use protection! You don't want to start worring about your body changes, food cravings, sleeping on your side or back, not being able to hang out with your friends or go to parties with them and your boyfriend, going to the doctor, etc.. Dont think about babies right now.. you may regret it.. not the baby.. but the life the baby would have.. Think about it!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 July 2009):
 What are you nuts having unprotected sex with this guy? I'll tell you what I hope will happen to your boyfriend if you get pregnant: jail time. And I'll also tell you what will happen to you: if you keep the baby your friends will be too busy to come visit and willl be out having a great time while your stuck at home, the expenses of having a child will be stagering and your long gone boyfriend won't be able or refuses to give you any money, then next summer you'll reach for your bikini and realize your lovely young body is going to need a lot of work before you can put it on, if you stay in school you'll be juggling mid-night feedings and doing homework, just getting a date can be hard cause some guys don't want to get involved with an instant family, the list goes on. Stop being so stupid with the life God gave you.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (27 July 2009):
That is something that you should probably ask your boyfriend. Young or old, all guys are going to have a different reaction and handle things differently. Be wise and from now on, use protection. This is a question you should have asked yourself and him before you had unprotected sex.
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