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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my boyfriend cannot last during sex at all. I can tell if he kept going for like a good 15 minutes I would probably be able to finish and be satisfied, but he can only last about 30 seconds! He doesn't finish after 30 seconds, but we have to stop and take a quick (minute or so) break, which just completely makes it impossible for me to finish. He's very nice and obliging and always manually or orally finishes me, but I don't always want that. I just want sex sometimes! I'm starting to get really frustrated because taking breaks just doesn't cut it for me. I also REALLY hate the feel of those super thick condoms so those are out. I've heard of kegel exercises making it possible for a guy to last. Do those work? Any other suggestions?
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 He doesn't finish after 30 seconds, but we have to stop and take a quick (minute or so) break
Why do you have to take a break.
I was thinking you where describing premature ejaculation untill i read that line witch i dont understand
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reader, quarky  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 One 'trick' I used to use was to sort myself out an hour or so before sex. Made me last longer.
Or bring him off first, then spend 30 mins or so of him 'obliging' you, then try again when he's ready-should last longer the 2nd time.
Or try the Billy Connelly technique-get him to recite the 9 times table!
Guys usually learn to last longer with more experience too.
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