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He's jealous and always wants to know where I am!

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Question - (24 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2009)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *lou oog writes:

Hi everybody Iam sorry this will be long but please advice me what to do.

2 start with is I was engaged with this man for over 16y I have 2 girls with my previous marage and a son with this guy, he never wanted 2 get married I was the one that always wanted 2 get married we broke up about 9months ago for so much reasons (his frends always came 1 he drank 2 much he is a very jalouse person I never had time alone for my self over a weekend he always wanted 2 know where i am in town and the last straw was when he vurbily abouse me and the 2 girls he would call us all those ugly words.) and there are so much more but i think you all will get the picture. Well like i said i moved out 9 months ago and he would never leave us alone he would pass my home 6 times a day just 2 see if i am there he would call me if he don't see my car there and would ask were i am. Dec month we went on holiday 2 see if we could work thing out but my 1 daugter dont want to move back home she dont want 2 see him and things dont look good also for us becouse he is still that jalouse person and i dont know what 2 do must i try and work this out with him or must i see 2 my kids 1 please help i dont know what 2 do

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A female reader, blou oog South Africa +, writes (24 February 2009):

blou oog is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your reply on my question its true what you say if he haven't change this 2 months then he will never change its just i am so confuced but its his foult, i know now what to do they say you will always get a new partner but you wount get your children back thanks again.

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A female reader, cupid77 United States +, writes (24 February 2009):

cupid77 agony auntYou broke up and he keeps stalking you and making your life miserable. You need to tell him that you are broken up, and that you want him to quit coming by the house and stop calling you. If that doesn't work then get a restraining order against him! If he asks where you are or where you have been tell him that it is none of his business. Don't feed into it. Tell him nothing about your life, and ignore his calls. Don't even answer them. He wasted 16 years of your life. Don't let him waste any more! He is abusive to you and your kids. Stay away for your kids sake, and for your own!

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