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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well there is this guy,and he has a girlfriend + he is my best friend's brother. Blah,he is just really confusing.Like,he tells me he loves me and whatnot,and We have had..um,"action" in the past. But when we are around people,he just hides it. He's never told me not to tell anyone,but I'm sort of afraid too. I really REALLY like him,well love him. It's just awkward when I'm around him cause I really don't know what to say or do. He has cheated on his "girlfriend" Many many times. He told me that when him and "this one" breaks up,that I'm first on "his list". It just makes me very angry. I really love this guy,but I'm thinking if I ever get a chance to be with him,he will just cheat on me too:/ Oh,and his sister,my best friend doesn't know ANYTHING about us,cause all of the"action" happened when everyone was asleep... I don't really know how to word this into a question..I guess I'm just asking for help..
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reader, didda123  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 You must forget him he is just using you it is so obvious.
I know you have feelings for him but he is not showing you any respect the way he is carrying on!
Have a little bit respect for yourself and walk away. As you said yourself he will do exactly the same to you if you were in a relationship he is doing it now effectively so why should it be any different if you were together!
There are plenty more boys who will love and respect you so i wouldn't waste anymore time on this one and move on.
I know it is difficult and you need to be strong but it is for the best honestly x
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