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writes:mkkay well can you help me! i wanted ta know is it normal for your clit to be saggy? and is it a turn off? i didnt let my ex touch me down there because i as so insecure about it! i want to sex my boy friend but im afraid he will be freaked out by it and scream and run away! lol but yeah should i be ashamed?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 now you gals are starting to sound just like us men all worried about our size...it's all good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): i have the same exact problem.it seems all of my friends have a normal sized clit but mine is big.im not a guy obviously , so i dont know if it turns them on.some guys it does turn on, some it doesnt.i honestly hate it.but you should try to look at yourself in a different way.i dont really think it matters to guys just because vag is vag but still i know where your coming from.
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reader, Katy.  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 hey, i was exactly like you; well still am, i never thought i'd have sex and assumed there was something wrong with me all my life until recently i heard its actually pretty common.
i don't like my boyfriend seeing me down there and took a long time to feel comfortable but tbh, he actually couldn't care what it looks like down there, at the end of the day, sex is sex no matter what you look like.
I'm trying to become more comfortable with myself and so should you, learn about your body, how it functions, what turns you on/off and i promise you having that confidence will totally overide however you appear down there.
learn to love your body and your deffinatley normal and like another poster put, i would be extremely shocked if your boyfriend said anything; if he loves you he won't actually give a toss.
hope this helps x
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reader, ISOHaven  +, writes (24 February 2009):
Oh wow! It's times like these I hate our society.
1. As was already stated, all women are different. Some women have clits that are too small (hard to finish). What would be considered normal (can still be hard to finish). Some who are extra large and for some reason they think it's ugly? HECK NO! An over sized clit is not only beautiful it's down right sexy!!!
2. This is your erogenous zone. Big is good. If you find yourself the right man or make an unright man experienced he should be able to please you...in many ways! A lot of women can't have a vaginal orgasm and require clitoral stimulus. You got it made girl!!!
Go have fun!
ps, for those reading there is nothing wrong with extra large labia either. Once again, SEXY!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you guys im getn more and more self esteem! thanks!xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): hia im exactly the same as you and all it is is "extra skin" you can have an operation to minimize it if you like but i like the fact that its there its part of me.
an apparently it helps turn you on quicker so..id keep it if you now what i mean lol ;) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): in order of your questions; define normal,No and definitely not.
All bodies are different. Some big, some small, some red bits here, dry bits there, saggy bits here and pert bits there. All are different. (except maybe identical twins :)
If he is freaked out i will be surprised... think he will be um thinking of something else when time comes.
Hugs Star.x.
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