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writes:hi, i think my gf is cheating on me... we only been dating for a month and a half. but a couple of nights ago she went out wit sum guy friends and went home around 3am. then that morning she went to her ex boyfriends house because he's off to join the army. which makes me even more uncomfertable, so i called her around 10. she says she is sleeping, and told me to go to her house around 11:30, well i got there around 11:20 and say her just returning home... and right when she got into my car she started explaining why she just showed up, when i didnt ask or mentioned anything. i think she might be trying to cover sumthing up... i dont know wat to think, and i totaly trust her with all my heart. can you anyone tell me wat they think, and what they might do in my position. i really need some advice. thank you for your time
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reader, cupid77 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 I guess I could see her sleeping there overnight, if a bunch of people crashed there after the party, but she went there in the morning... Who goes to someone's house to fall asleep? If she had a hangover then wouldn't she sleep it off at home rather then going out there in the morning? You know her better then we all do, but it still sounds fishy to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe gave plenty off excuse saying that she had a hangover, so she fell asleep on his couch, also that there were alot of people there.
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reader, cupid77 +, writes (24 February 2009):
So she was "sleeping" at 10, and "just getting home" at 11:20... Hmmmm... either she was cheating like you suspected, or she thought you would be mad at her for being wherever she was that night. Either way she lyed to you! Your only hurting yourself by holding it in. You need to just ask her what she did and why she lied about it. You'll never know the truth unless you call her out on it. What "excuse did she give you when she pulled up at 11:20?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): its really hard to say and I dont want to make you feel like crap but if what your saying is true and you have this STRONG gut feeling she is cheating on you than Im sorry man she prob. is. I was with a girl for 4 years and one night she went out with her "friend" and didnt come home and I found out she had sex with a guy that night. So I know how bad it hurts and Im really sorry to be the one to say this but I would talk to her if I were you. Not argue but sit down and have a SERIOUS heart to heart talk. I hope that Im wrong and shes not cheating on you though but I wish you the best of luck.
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