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*ullMA60
writes:Where to start.... Ok, started dating this guy over 15 years ago, my first everything. Dating for years then reconnected this summer after about 4 years. He was breaking up w/ this girl and we got pregnant. Spend an amazing weekend together while she was moving out and we both remembered why we fell in love so many years ago. He got home, guilted into staying w/ her. I found out I was pregnant and told him, but told him that I didn't need him to do anything, just want he felt was right, so he wanted in 100% and I made triple sure. He told me he was in love and I saw in his eyes that he was. I never have felt a love this strong, 30 years old. Miscarried and we broke up. I wasw living there at the point, as I needed to. While looking for a place he was texting w/ ex, but back and forth and always woke up with him cuddling, saying I love you and said he wasnted to date, but should try not living together so soon.Dec his aggravation hits the fan and I move out. We saw eachother twice, the last 2 weeks ago and had sex, tought I could handle it and I am now worse. I think about the baby each day and can't sleep at night. I still check what the baby would be developing like and just need his support.He won't call. We have 15 years history and I know that it's crazy to hear, but I know he does love me. I think he's immature and scared, but what's really going on with him?!?
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SullMA60 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen we were together, it was like a fairy tale, this guy was crazy about me and we were so happy, just makes no sense at all....
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