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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, so basically I'm 19 years old, have a comfortable sex partner, who cares about my needs, but I still don't orgasm. I have never had an orgasm in my life, whether it be during sex or masturbation, it's never happened. I've felt like my body has pins and needles and felt weak, but it was never an amazing feeling so I guess it's not happened. It seems like sex is just a comforable thing, nothing spectacular happens for me and I'm starting to get frustrated about it. I'm constantly hearing my friends talk about thesemind blowing, outrageous, and earth quake like orgasms and I'm feeling pretty left out of this miracle. Help?
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reader, J-LOVE  +, writes (24 February 2009):
sometimes things are never what they seem. it isn't an big outragous burst. but it feels really really good. sometimes you have to focus on the orgasms. meaning when your having sex just think of things that turn you on the most. think freaky thoughts so to say, it works for me. if that doesn't work talk to your doc it may be a medical thing.
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