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writes:If my man watches heaps of Asian girly porn and teen porn, does that mean he would prefer them in real life?I have found all this crap on our pc and now when we go out I am seriously paranoid he is perving at asians etc. (although I have no idea what he is thinking? It is really messing with my head that I am not good enough and will never measure up to them for him.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Likley yes, if its constantly the same type of person then yes thats the case but also if you can see what tyoe of positions they are, he could just be into the position. he's likley is interested in those type of people because thats what his key "fantasy" is over. Fantasizing means dreaming and dreaming means wonder, wonder means hes curious and so on to be with that type of person - he may already have a person that has sparked his curiosity but you will never know and theres no point in worring right now OK!.
BUT! there is many factors you will need to investigate before understanding if that is the case. For example: He might only have access to that type of pornography or only know those type of sites because a mate told him about them, see if you can find the site he gets it from. If it's a major site catoring for all types of interests such as asian, straight, bi, blonds, brunetts etc but he is only targeting that type of interest on that site ie asians then yes he's into asians. but he may only have access to sites that only cator for those audiences and thats all he knows so it may look like hes into asians but thats all hes got to look at. you will need to investigate more:
If you look in the website history id open one of the pages and then leave it on in the background when you leave the computer this is so he sees or thinks that you know what he's up to. Then see what his reaction is. you can also easily say that the page just popped up!
Let us know how you go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): No this doesn't mean that he is more interested in Asian women, he is just watching this kind of porn because maybe he finds it turns him on and a lot of men watch this, but it doesn't mean they prefer them in real life. Many married woman watch lesbian porn, this doesn't mean they prefer women, it's what ever turns you on and interests you, I think you are being paranoid about it when you shouldn't. It's not that you aren't measuring up to them, he finds this better as porn. Just relax it's normal for a man to like this
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): perving? Is your partner a pervert? What makes you think his sexual behaviour is devious?
viewing pornography is not perverted but can be selfish.
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